A while ago, a private bank invited me to do a small-scale closed door sharing, targeting their core high net worth clients in the domestic region.
As soon as I entered the door that day, I found that nearly half of the dozens of people present were old acquaintances I had met in other circles and events.
Since that’s the case, let’s just have a frank and candid conversation, after all, I only want to say the harshest and most heart wrenching words to familiar friends.
Especially now, in this environment, there are too many empty words and rare truths that seek truth from facts.
On the same day, some of the contents were very important, so they were specially excerpted and shared with the brothers and sisters here:
On this land, you must always remember:
Personal efforts and choices ultimately need to be tied to the historical process in order to see the real results.
So, before you start nibbling and acting recklessly, first look up at the sky, then at the environment around you, and finally make a decision.
Many people, just missing a glance, end up wasting their entire lives.
The chapter of the era has turned from the passionate years to the peaceful life of time.
In other words, unless you have a very special relationship, it is almost impossible to encounter investment opportunities with high returns, high growth, and high efficiency. Even if there are, they are basically scams.
On the contrary, in the future, regardless of the size of the business, there will be a strong emphasis on “stability”.
The meaning of stability is: to abide by public order and good customs in a reasonable and legal manner, even if it doesn’t make much money, as long as it can provide decent cash flow returns, then this is a good business and investment.
The “ability evaluation” system of the entire society is undergoing earth shaking changes, but the vast majority of people are still lagging behind.
For example, every year, an increasing number of graduate students are actually poor children whose parents have no way out or have no ideas, and can only rely on taking the postgraduate entrance exam to cope with time.
And the truly smart ones have already started trying out those “blue age+white-collar” compound jobs, although they may not seem respectable at first glance, they can start accumulating real knowledge early on.
On the contrary, the most embarrassing thing is for those graduate students who are now aged 23-27, with a thin resume that almost blatantly tells others: I know nothing but how to solve problems.
4- Remember, the current environment must not be foolish and rely solely on a single job to make a living.
Many people still don’t know that many seemingly “incredibly solid iron rice bowls” are on the brink of danger. Although you don’t need to rush to find another way out, at least you need to find a safe way out for yourself.
Otherwise, when the destined obstacles come, you will really be completely defeated and never be able to get up again.
I have always advised many friends who are bosses, saying:
Don’t invest too much trust in your employees. Everyone just comes out to make a living, so don’t expect them to consider your interests. What they want is high salary and few jobs, not to work together with you.
Similarly, I also say to more friends who work:
Don’t have too much hope for the company. In today’s era, if your cost-effectiveness is not as good as that of the new generation, then you are destined to be eliminated. As for hard work and hard work, what about credit? At most, I’ll pat you on the shoulder and say thank you.
I hope you can listen to both of these words to understand.
6- In the past two years, I have reminded my brothers and sisters in the community countless times:
You must get rid of the mindset of cows, horses, and sheep, which is essentially the mindset of “following orders”.
Learn to be proactive, treat yourself as a chess piece, and seriously consider where you are on the chessboard? And what resources do they have? What other relationships do we need to strive for?
The key is to recognize a reality:
Besides yourself, even your most trusted friends or closest spouse in this society will not prioritize your interests.
So, we must learn the instinct to seek happiness and profit for ourselves.
7- Starting from these two years, I really don’t want to be fooled by those open-minded, loving, gentle, humble and frugal lies anymore.
In principle, as long as you do not violate moral ethics, abide by the law, and do not cause trouble to society, you are already a very good person.
The remaining energy, you can invest it in making money, expanding your business, and developing in a down-to-earth manner. This is the most practical way.
To be honest, the development trend in the next few years will only become more and more profound, realistic, and cold, so simply crying and complaining is meaningless.
Because there will always be someone who cries harder and sadder than you.
Going back to the basics, it remains an eternal question:
How big can you solve specific problems with your abilities in society?
This is the direction you really need to think about and improve, otherwise no matter how the environment warms up, it has nothing to do with you.
For ordinary people, I have some very important supplements.
For those with a background in science and engineering, unless you have strong social connections, do not rush towards eliminating production capacity or traditional industries.
Otherwise, you are likely to fall into a dilemma in a few years, where you can’t even endure hunger.
We must venture into the newly illuminated field of technology, and we must uphold the mentality of “thick skinned, not afraid of mistakes, and seeking experience”, and broaden our horizons and ability structure.
For those with a humanities background, they must move towards the correct direction of patriotism, tradition, and conservatism, because both reason and benefit are the only paths that can lead to good results.
Never take a different path towards something that may seem cool and niche, but is not actually recognized by the mainstream.
To put it simply, first pave the way for everyone, and then consider standing out on this path.
Actually, the entire six-year period from 2019 to 2025 will be a period of major reshuffle of the entire social ecological niche.
Many once unbreakable beliefs have been completely shattered, along with countless unambitious people who have been eliminated.
At times like this, don’t be stubborn.
You must tell yourself:
Without adjustment or evolution, the outcome is 100% elimination.
But don’t be afraid, because with so many conservative older generations and those who are not ambitious being washed out, at this time, all I need to do is update my internal skills once.
So the vacant ecological niche is naturally yours.
In the past two years, really don’t mix with the sheep.
Because flocks of sheep have never appeared so gentle and harmless on the surface, they are just incompetent, but within them, there are plenty of trampling, jealousy, and resentment.
Being with them will only endlessly delay and waste your life.
The most fatal thing is that it will make your perspective smaller and smaller.
Finally, like them, they became vengeful and shortsighted, sacrificing years of their energy and time for a small profit.
Remember, stay away from herbivores and become carnivores.
To bring delicious meat to oneself and one’s family, instead of chewing on withered grass and absorbing nutrients that are better than nothing every day.
Actually, there are very few people in this world who are born meat eaters.
Because both desire and means require firsthand experience to be enlightened, but fortunately you have a shortcut right in front of you, and that is my community.
Never before has there been a circle that provides such comprehensive and detailed explanations of macro interpretation, the logic of the martial world, and the means of climbing at such a high density.
After several years of development, in this community family, we are now full of all kinds of wealth freedom and excellent career achievements of brothers and sisters.
And many of them, three or four years ago, were just ordinary people like you.
I can tell you very clearly that unless you truly get involved, you never know how much change “studying hard in a good circle for a year” will bring you.
By the way, please introduce yourself well before joining.
Then, don’t ask questions in a hurry, but take a week to calm down and read all the content shared by other brothers and sisters, and then slowly catch up with the rhythm.
I absolutely believe that after a year of experience, you are destined to undergo a complete transformation.
You will finally fully understand how this society plays and the tricks that the upper echelons will never tell you.